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Thread (Discussion): No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?

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Message 118241 (In Reply to Message 118229)
Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?

Posted by x_Rob on Oct 14, 2003 05:22 PM | Also by x_Rob

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Orolan & Silverthorne:

Just read the above posts, I realized what you are talking about are "Interventions" these are key to any Relapse Prevention Plan (RPP). Pedophile or otherwise.

What you both describe is no different, in principle, than when a doctor prescribes blood pressure medicine to be taken to keep blood pressure down. Don't take it, heart attack or stroke!

Intervention have the same effect, and RPPs may have many different kinds of "interventions" each keeping in check what it was designed for. Don't use interventions means high risk of acting out again, or actually acting out!

Silver, you "estimated over 50%" will act out again, I don't know if the % is correct or not, whats relevant is, it also says SOME WILL NOT ACT OUT AGAIN! Hence the intervention they are using are working!

Interventions work!

It also says there are some who can live without acting out!

Rob

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Message 118229
Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?

Posted by x_orolan on Oct 14, 2003 03:06 PM | Also by x_orolan

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Silver,
Certainly a good question and concept. From my experiences in talking to people, I recall one story with some relevance.

There is a man I know who has not had sex in 14 years. His sister contracted AIDS and died from it. Since she died, he has been terrified of the possibility of contracting it himself.
Since 1989 he has satisfied his sexual needs through masturbation, using pornography as a stimulus. The pornography he views does not contain actual depictions of sex, but many of the poses are quite suggestive. He has contact with women, and even goes out on dates with them. The women are actually happy to go out for a night on the town without the added "pressures" of a sexual tryst afterwords. These outings apparently satisfy his needs for interaction with members of the opposite sex.

I guess my question/point here would be, "Is it possible for a pedophile to do the same thing, including frequent interaction with children, and not actually commit an offense?" 
What is it about this man that makes this possible? Is his fear that great, that it can fully overcome any desire for physical intimacy? Can "fear" have the same effect on a pedophile? If it were legal, could child soft-porn be a viable tool to prevent offenses, or would it "fuel" the desire as some claim it does?

Just throwing it out for discussion. Your thoughts?

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118222, x_Silverthorne, Oct 14, 2003 01:07 PM [No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]
      118229, x_orolan, Oct 14, 2003 03:06 PM [Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]
            118231, x_Silverthorne, Oct 14, 2003 03:36 PM [Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]
            118241, x_Rob, Oct 14, 2003 05:22 PM [Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]
            118313, x_TessaW, Oct 16, 2003 04:14 PM [Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]
                  118315, x_orolan, Oct 16, 2003 07:23 PM [Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]
                  118322, x_Silverthorne, Oct 17, 2003 02:29 AM [Excuse me?]
            118356, x_Mark, Oct 20, 2003 08:25 AM [Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]
      118419, x_Sisco, Oct 27, 2003 10:30 AM [Re: No Alternatives = Molesting Kids?]

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