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Forum: Old Message Board
Thread (Discussion): QUESTIONS???????
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Message 118343 (In Reply to Message 118261)
establishing boundries
Posted by x_darlene
on Oct 18, 2003 02:36 PM | Also by x_darlene
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I know that right now you may not want to hear this, but as a survvior here goes.
You MUST take control of your life... and there will be consequences...
it may cost you everything, but you will gain yourself back and healing to boot.
The best start is with a book by John Townsend and Henry Cloud called BOUNDRIES . you can get a free copy by going to www.family.org and ordering it, under donation info just put zero. That is there as a resource for what you can afford. It is an excellent book about establishing boundries after yours were so everely violated, and learning that you bear responsibility in your healing and in your life. therefore.... when he intimidates, he has crossed a boundry and you have a right and 'permission ' to resist.
I hope you are at a place you can understand and you will go there and order the book. you can get up to 5 resources at a time without question. enjoy. love darlene
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Message 118261
Go on the offensive
Posted by x_Silverthorne
on Oct 15, 2003 03:10 AM | Also by x_Silverthorne
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118215, x_tia, Oct 14, 2003 11:30 AM [QUESTIONS???????]
118218, x_Silverthorne, Oct 14, 2003 12:46 PM [Answers - and some questions for you]
118237, x_tia, Oct 14, 2003 04:43 PM [Re: Answers - and some questions for you]
118238, x_tia, Oct 14, 2003 04:58 PM [Re: Answers - and some questions for you]
118239, x_tia, Oct 14, 2003 05:04 PM [Re: Answers - and some questions for you]
118240, x_tia, Oct 14, 2003 05:06 PM [Re: Answers - and some questions for you]
118261, x_Silverthorne, Oct 15, 2003 03:10 AM [Go on the offensive]
118280, x_tia, Oct 15, 2003 11:37 AM [Re: Go on the offensive]
118285, x_Silverthorne, Oct 15, 2003 05:16 PM [Tia - you need to strike now!]
118311, x_tia, Oct 16, 2003 09:55 AM [Re: Tia - you need to strike now!]
118323, x_Sisco, Oct 17, 2003 11:05 AM [Re: Tia - you need to strik...]
118326, x_tia, Oct 17, 2003 11:42 AM [Re: Tia - you need to stri...]
118343, x_darlene, Oct 18, 2003 02:36 PM [establishing boundries]
118344, Rejected
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