| Top Posters Since October 2003 |
|---|
dp1 | 4000+ | orolan | 4000+ | Navigatr1 | 2500+ | Silvert... | 2500+ | 1dadof5 | 2500+ | Valerie | 2000+ | steve | 1500+ | victori... | 1000+ | myoung | 1000+ | rabbitr... | 750+ | HPierce | 750+ | poetsdr... | 750+ | Renunci... | 750+ | lj | 750+ | fallenone | 500+ | DoTheCr... | 500+ | marta | 500+ | momhelp... | 500+ | prozac | 500+ | rebel51 | 500+ | PVulcan | 250+ | anti | 250+ | rodsmith | 250+ | LockEmUp | 250+ | Quest | 250+ | artie | 250+ | KK | 250+ | LostTime | 250+ | TGoodman | 250+ | amberleaf | 250+ | deadmom... | 250+ | brennus | 100+ | scarlett | 100+ | mousein... | 100+ | thepar | 100+ | assumpt... | 100+ | lildrafire | 100+ | JakeLF | 100+ | MrTruth | 100+ | june5 | 100+ |
| Newest Users |
|---|
| Registered within the last 72 hours. | | 1success1 | | buttwaxer | | chooch | | genospice | | kawaski | | kelstress | | unknowable |
|
|
Forum: Old Message Board
Thread (Discussion): My son was convicted
Switch to Flat View
Message 118263 (In Reply to Message 118242)
More questions for A Mom
Posted by x_Silverthorne
on Oct 15, 2003 03:24 AM | Also by x_Silverthorne
| Gender: ,
Age Bracket: ,
State: ,
Country: |
A Mom,
From the sounds of it your son is being treated fairly by the system I wanted to touch base on a couple issues.
1) You said the therapist was concerned he was still attracted to minors. Did she indicate this was the cause of his original offense (attraction) and that it wasn't a "crime of the moment"? Why does she feel this way?
2) Does your son have any age-appropriate friends either male or female?
3) Does your son participate in any sporting events or anything like that (social network)?
4) Has your son had a boy or girlfriend at this point?
A healthy social network is critical to recovery. I myself while suffering from pedophilia for years have never acted out. I've had the benefit of the best therapy money can buy and I'm in pretty decent shape. One thing my therapist worked with me on was developing healthy friendships and social contacts. People need someone (and parents don't count) they can just engage with. If your son is a 'loner' without many friends he could have real problems developing healthy relationships in the future.
Silverthorne
| See an abbreviation or acronym, but don't know what it stands for? Consult
the Glossary. |
Switch to Flat View
Message 118242
Re: Questions for A Mom
Posted by x_Amom
on Oct 14, 2003 06:24 PM | Also by x_Amom
| Gender: ,
Age Bracket: ,
State: ,
Country: |
Thread
118091, x_Amom, Oct 12, 2003 01:04 PM [My son was convicted]
118100, x_anti, Oct 13, 2003 02:24 AM [Re: My son was convicted]
118106, x_Rob, Oct 13, 2003 04:49 AM [Re: My son was convicted]
118108, x_Silverthorne, Oct 13, 2003 04:56 AM [Questions for A Mom]
118242, x_Amom, Oct 14, 2003 06:24 PM [Re: Questions for A Mom]
118248, x_orolan, Oct 14, 2003 07:36 PM [Re: Questions for A Mom]
118262, x_Silverthorne, Oct 15, 2003 03:21 AM [Resources for A Mom - please read]
118263, x_Silverthorne, Oct 15, 2003 03:24 AM [More questions for A Mom]
118294, x_Amom, Oct 15, 2003 08:48 PM [Re: More questions for A Mom]
118305, x_Silverthorne, Oct 16, 2003 04:54 AM [Re: More questions for A Mom]
118310, x_Steve, Oct 16, 2003 09:27 AM [Re: More questions for A Mom]
118191, x_Persevere, Oct 13, 2003 09:55 PM [Re: My son was convicted]
Forum Home
| Top of Thread
|
|
