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Forum: Old Message Board
Thread (Discussion): Christian Teacher Jailed on Sex Charge
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Message 117564 (In Reply to Message 117524)
Re: Church question for Anti
Posted by x_DP1
on Oct 05, 2003 12:29 PM | Also by x_DP1
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Anti,
I do not believe that you hate Silver as previously posted. You don't even know Silver since you never met him. You may hate his posts, his attitudes, or that he reminds you of a child molester, but you don't hate him (the person). You and Silver have taken your opposing opinions to the personal level which is totally out of line. Neither of you know the other one. This board is not personal - it's simply a mode of communication.
I beleive that if you rephrased your anger, ie..., "I hate your posts Silver" it would be more accurate. Pointing fingers and name calling only inflames more anger to an already angry situation. You could accomplish the same points by depersonalizing your sentences.
Example:
You want to say I hate you
instead you could say:
I hate your behavior.
This is easier for the person on the other side to accept and does not inflame by personally attacking.
It would be fair for you to say:
"Silver, I hate that your deviant thoughts remind me of my personal issues with child molesters".
Which I believe is what you are really saying instead of "I hate you"
When a person is told, "I hate you" they are hurt. Also, it doesn't explain what the problem is. What is the problem with Silver? His posts? His thoughts? The fact that one day you are afraid he may act out and really hurt someone? Silver appears to be sincere in trying to work with you as far as meeting in the middle. He has no control over the fact that you get majorly pissed off when it comes to child molesters. He does not represent the average child molester...there are plenty on this site and he's not one of them.
I also wonder if it's really really possible for a pedo to never offend sexually. I am not 100% convinced that all pedos will never offend. There's always a first time and since we don't have a crystal ball I guess we will never know the truth. In the meantime, I believe it's unfair to address Silver as a child molester (HP also as far as I am concerned) as a child molester since no court in the nation has found them guilty. I am not suggesting that molestation never occured nor am I saying that it never will occur. I am saying that they are innocent until proven guilty.
Anti, have a great day and hope you are feeling better as you have posted you haven't been feeling well. Thanks for asking about my surgery, I am healing better than expected and doing fine.
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Message 117524
Re: Church question for Anti
Posted by x_anti
on Oct 04, 2003 10:31 PM | Also by x_anti
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Thread
117313, x_DP1, Oct 02, 2003 07:21 AM [Christian Teacher Jailed on Sex Charge]
117322, x_orolan, Oct 02, 2003 10:38 AM [Re: Teacher AT Christian School]
117382, x_DP1, Oct 02, 2003 09:34 PM [Re: Teacher AT Christian School]
117408, x_orolan, Oct 03, 2003 08:48 AM [Re: Teacher AT Christian School]
117480, x_anti, Oct 03, 2003 10:39 PM [Re: Teacher AT Christian School]
117479, x_anti, Oct 03, 2003 10:37 PM [Re: Teacher AT Christian School]
117364, x_HPierce, Oct 02, 2003 07:23 PM [Re: Christian Teacher Jailed on Sex Charge]
117392, x_simon, Oct 02, 2003 10:16 PM [Re: Christian Teacher Jailed on Sex Charge]
117449, x_HPierce, Oct 03, 2003 08:50 PM [I have my doubts about that, simon]
117452, x_simon, Oct 03, 2003 09:19 PM [Re: I have my doubts about that, simon]
117469, x_HPierce, Oct 03, 2003 10:08 PM [Yeah, I agree to that]
117374, x_LJ, Oct 02, 2003 08:31 PM [Re: Christian Teacher Jailed on Sex Charge]
117396, x_SurvivorForeve, Oct 02, 2003 10:41 PM [Re: Christian Teacher Jailed on Se...]
117399, x_DoTheCrimeDoTh, Oct 03, 2003 12:55 AM [Hail Mary Full of >>>&...]
117398, x_DoTheCrimeDoTh, Oct 03, 2003 12:16 AM [Gender Neutral]
117478, x_anti, Oct 03, 2003 10:33 PM [Re: Christian Teacher Jailed on Sex Charge]
117501, x_Silverthorne, Oct 04, 2003 03:18 AM [Church question for Anti]
117524, x_anti, Oct 04, 2003 10:31 PM [Re: Church question for Anti]
117551, x_Silverthorne, Oct 05, 2003 03:54 AM [A real humanitarian]
117564, x_DP1, Oct 05, 2003 12:29 PM [Re: Church question for Anti]
117591, x_Silverthorne, Oct 05, 2003 04:02 PM [Your wrong DP1]
117666, x_anti, Oct 06, 2003 02:02 AM [Re: Church question for Anti]
117711, x_DP1, Oct 06, 2003 09:37 PM [Re: Church question for Anti]
117783, x_anti, Oct 07, 2003 10:32 PM [Re: Church question for Anti]
117794, x_DP1, Oct 08, 2003 08:56 AM [For Anti - Sick Pedos]
118075, x_anti, Oct 11, 2003 01:43 AM [Re: For Anti - Sick Pedos]
117556, x_DP1, Oct 05, 2003 10:07 AM [Re: Church question for Anti]
117665, x_anti, Oct 06, 2003 02:00 AM [Re: Church question for Anti]
117565, x_SurvivorForeve, Oct 05, 2003 12:44 PM [Re: Church (Good Point Silver)]
118374, x_TessaW, Oct 21, 2003 10:40 AM [Re: For Anti - Sick Pedos]
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