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Thread (Discussion): Pedophile can't be punished for thoughts Switch to Flat View
Message 111994 (In Reply to Message 111990) Re: About Time
Posted by x_Casey
on Jun 28, 2003 11:22 PM | Also by x_Casey
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I think thats good. Though I wonder why the other judge did not vote to over-rule. Because otherwise he would be saying "it's ok to punish someone for what they think" or I guess even what they say. Sounds alot like our eastern neighbors. If I say "I wish you were dead." In no way does that mean I am gonna kill someone.
I do believe that theripist have to report anything they think would create repeat offenses. Which in of itself is bad, because these guys trust their groups to understand them and then they are turned on by the only people that will listen to their thoughts. If the guy gave a name and place, or said "I think I will molest tomorrow." That would be another story and they could have the P.O. keeping a better eye on him. That is what they are paid to do.
I do however think, if the guy has these thoughts everytime he goes to the park, he needs to go other places, if he cannot control them. How far does he go with these thoughts? I know they can just pop into your head, but does he play them out in his mind while he sits on the bench? Or does he attempt to switch his thoughts in another direction. Playing thoughts out in a place like the park, or anywhere around children in dangerous. It makes it too real. Playing them out at home, if he has to play them out, is alot safer. He could end up snatching up a kid, and then this whole ordeal will go back to court and those judges will no longer vote in the favor of sexual offenders.
Some pedos may be able to control themselfs, but not everyone has the same life. And some don't. And proudly believe that sex with a child is ok. That I strongly do not believe in. There is no logic in a sexual relationship with a juvenile, it does not play out to any positive end. Once the juvenile gets older the molester or pedo no longer has any intrest in them sexually and looks for someone else. And this is from the words of pedos/boylovers I have chatted with.
What void are you trying to fill? I'll tell you what really made me do my crime, it was being able to get sexually excited from affection. This made me combine sex and love into one pot. So sometimes, even now, when I am shown affection my body can react sexually. Not that I react that way, but I have left a room, and got very angry with myself over it. Now I understand it, as where I didn't before. If you go thru your teen years with a particular belief or habit, then it is usually there to stay after you reach adulthood. As my life moves on that in me will diminish. One do to age, but two because I am recieving the affection I want from other healthy sources.
Healthy? Yes, Healthy. Because again if you cannot have a non-sexual relationship with anyone, including children, and feel loved, then you need to re-think. And there are plenty of ehem "normal" people out there that cannot have non-sexual relationships, or they think they are not loved. So alot of people need to do alot of thinking. =P
I love kids. And there is nothing saying you can't either, but "sex" isn't love. Period. It is the way we reproduce.
I have trouble believeing anyone could read all this and go "well he's right, I'll change." I sure wouldn't have ever had you told me this a few years back. I would have just thought you were such an idiot. lol But when I started searching for more, is when certian words people would write would hit home and eventually I came to the conclusions on certain matters I have today. But when my mind starts going, I just write it out, so the usually can go into another chapter, or even book. Maybe there is someone reading the boards looking for a few words I said in here.
Peace, Casey
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Message 111990 About Time
Posted by x_Silverthorne
on Jun 28, 2003 08:14 PM | Also by x_Silverthorne
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Thread 111989, x_HPierce, Jun 28, 2003 07:41 PM [Pedophile can't be punished for thoughts] 111990, x_Silverthorne, Jun 28, 2003 08:14 PM [About Time] 111993, x_HPierce, Jun 28, 2003 11:16 PM [I agree] 111994, x_Casey, Jun 28, 2003 11:22 PM [Re: About Time] 112003, x_HPierce, Jun 29, 2003 10:29 AM [Good and bad] 112020, x_Casey, Jun 30, 2003 01:59 PM [Re: Good and bad] 112034, x_HPierce, Jun 30, 2003 11:18 PM [Not really, Casey] 112054, x_Casey, Jul 01, 2003 03:42 AM [Re: Not really, Casey] 112063, x_HPierce, Jul 01, 2003 11:22 AM [thanks Casey] 112066, x_Casey, Jul 01, 2003 12:37 PM [--_--] 112084, x_HPierce, Jul 01, 2003 03:19 PM [Have to see both sides] 112092, x_Casey, Jul 01, 2003 06:31 PM [Re: Have to see bo...] 112110, x_HPierce, Jul 01, 2003 11:56 PM [Thanks for th...] 112152, x_Katie, Jul 03, 2003 02:02 AM [?? adult/mi...] 112165, x_HPierce, Jul 03, 2003 11:00 AM [We alr...] 112178, x_Casey, Jul 03, 2003 04:21 PM [Re: ?? a...] 112185, x_anti, Jul 03, 2003 06:31 PM [Re: ??...] 139978, paulina831, Sep 23, 2004 08:17 AM 111991, x_simon, Jun 28, 2003 08:57 PM [Re: Pedophile can't be punished for thoughts] 112018, x_CJ, Jun 30, 2003 12:09 PM [Re: Pedophile can't be punished for thoughts] 112025, x_Sisco, Jun 30, 2003 03:41 PM [Re: Good and bad] 112035, x_HPierce, Jun 30, 2003 11:22 PM [I'm glad you support my postion.] 112030, x_HPierce, Jun 30, 2003 09:49 PM [Re: Pedophile can't be punished for thoughts] 112106, x_Silverthorne, Jul 01, 2003 09:46 PM [Not a danger?] 112111, x_HPierce, Jul 02, 2003 12:02 AM [I agree]
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