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Message 100188
Confusion and questions
Posted by x_J
on Aug 07, 2001 03:20 AM | Also by x_J
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I live in Illinois and am married to a man who was arrested a few years ago for "public indecency" apparently "exposing himself" while driving.
I've found several porn videos, magazines and, until I pretty much took over our computer, he would chat, view pictures, etc.
he is secretive, refuses to talk about the issues and I am just not sure how concerned I should be.
He appears to be a loving father, my kids show no signs of any abuse (plus I am a full time mom, with them most of the time).
Is "public indecency" a "sex crime" per se? I feel very alone and confused. i don't know where to turn, how concerned I should be and what to do.
I have a history of depression, I am also not employed and am scared if I left that he might somehow get custody. I'm not even sure I should be afraid.
Any infor on support groups, web links and any other help to give me some direction would be much appreciated. I'm confused.
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Message 100190 (In Reply to Message 100188)
Re: Confusion and questions
Posted by x_x
on Aug 13, 2001 11:45 PM | Also by x_x
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Be very concern. Seek help.
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Message 100192 (In Reply to Message 100188)
Re: Confusion and questions
Posted by x_candy
on Aug 15, 2001 11:55 PM | Also by x_candy
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There is a cause for alarm here public exposure is pretty serious but the pornography is a major cause for concern. Is the pornagraphy just nude adults or is it teens. Is the pictures just nudes or are they lewd acts or violent depictions of rape. investigate more and be very carful with your childrens innocence.
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Message 100306 (In Reply to Message 100188)
Re: Confusion and questions
Posted by x_Nichole
on Nov 28, 2001 08:31 PM | Also by x_Nichole
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Hello J!
My fiancee was arrested for Public Indecency last October. He was honest from the begining of our relationship and told me that he was a sex offender (something that happened when he was 13 now he is 21) Last October though he was becomming secretive. (I was 3 mos. pregnant and needed surgery to remove a cyst on my ovary plus he lost his best friend 1 year prior) He had a mental breakdown and exposed himself. (this was in front of two young girls) He didn't touch them and had no intention to. Actually he had no intention at all, he said he couldn't control himself. Anyhow, before this mental breakdown he was looking at a lot of pornography, not child but porn in general. I am not speaking badly of pornography but the secretive ways he was looking at it. When I was in bed and just not around. He wouldn't talk to me either, but I knew something was wrong. He knew something was wrong. I wouldn't be worried about harming your children, but be concerned about how he is feeling. Try to stick with him, he may be depressed or stressed out. Try to bring it up in non obvious ways. And try not to get angry, that is the tough one. If he is acting funny ask him if everything is alright. Ever since my fiancee has been seeking treatment for deppression and obbsessive/compulsive disorder he has been doing very well. I hope if he has a problem it won't get out of hand.
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100188, x_J, Aug 07, 2001 03:20 AM [Confusion and questions]
100190, x_x, Aug 13, 2001 11:45 PM [Re: Confusion and questions]
100192, x_candy, Aug 15, 2001 11:55 PM [Re: Confusion and questions]
100306, x_Nichole, Nov 28, 2001 08:31 PM [Re: Confusion and questions]
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