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Thread (Discussion): UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Switch to Flat View
Message 100079 (In Reply to Message 100078) Re: Betty and Others
Posted by x_Gwen
on Mar 05, 2001 02:32 PM | Also by x_Gwen
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CC... please dont take this the wrong way but, HOW do you KNOW that the man you are speaking of is innocent? Were you there during these alleged attacks? I'm not saying that it never happens but chileren/teens dont just accuse someone of such a crime for no reason at all (though I don't deny that these days anything is possible and I don't know the case or the man you speek of so I cannot pass judgement). Seriously the reason I ask is 'cause my mother who "knew" this man for 20 so odd years had not a clue as to what he was doing to me. NOT ONE CLUE .. and she probably "knew" him better than anyone else. More and more these days its not the weirdo, greasy/nappy haired, half toothless men that are the perpetrators. Its the laywers, doctors, youth group leaders, pastors, teachers, coaches, etc., etc. All I am trying to say is ... though you may think that you know him ... you really don't necessarily KNOW him. And unfortunatly these days that goes with almost any situation that you can think of. Again please don't think that I am attacking you. I'm not.
Betty... I like you a lot. I like the way you think. I too agree with you on most things. I agree that it is a shame that innocent people get hurt or branded unfairly with this law. I've investigated sex offenders programs somewhat (I'm no expert and dont claim to be one) and do you know that roughly 7 out of 10 sex offenders are not only repeat offenders but 9 out of those 10 repeat offenders have been through the so-called sex offender progams. Pedophiles do have a "disease." Its like alcoholics once an alcoholic always an alcoholic. They always have to be monitored. The registration list is a way of doing that. Now why, you may ask is it that 9 out of 10 offenders, who complete the sex offender program, go out and do it again. Obvious reasons that come to mind...
1. They truely are sick people and there is no real "cure" for their illness.
2. The sex offender program are a waste of tax payers money and they obviously are not run properly... whomever runs these programs obviously needs to be replaced for their lack of whatever to have such a high failure rate.
Myself... I think its a mixture of both. You know I think (NOTE I SAID THINK: ie this is my opinion) ... I think that really only 1 out of every 100 successful sex offender program graduates is really successful because of the program. Call me pesimistic but I think that those other 99 who are "cured" are one of two things, 1. either smarter in picking their victims and dont get caught or 2. just so damn ashamed by being branded and the fact that for once while they were in prison they got to know how it felt to be someone else's bitch. Its true that sex offenders are on the bottom of the "food chain" in prison. Thats simply because all the other convicts in there ... bank robbers, killers, organized crime members... they all have children thus they despise those that feed off the children.
Still .. what all my blabering boils down to basicaly is that it is a sickness and they do need to be monitored not only by probation (which I agree does need to be more rigid) but also by the central public. With probation you've got only 1 guy looking over these offenders ... with the list you've got a network looking over themselves... and thus the offender.
Lastly in my "humble" opinion ... the perpetrator loses his "rights" so-to-speek when he took mine away!
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Message 100078 Re: You want to know whats not fair?
Posted by x_Betty
on Mar 05, 2001 12:25 AM | Also by x_Betty
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Thread 100032, x_LAURENCEHOWARD, Nov 19, 2000 07:11 PM [UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] 100035, x_Shannen, Nov 21, 2000 02:17 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] 100053, x_JJ, Feb 15, 2001 05:08 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] 100056, x_fedup, Feb 20, 2001 06:01 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] 100057, x_fedup, Feb 20, 2001 06:15 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] 100060, Rejected 100061, Rejected 100062, x_survivor, Feb 24, 2001 01:55 AM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!...] 100063, x_thislawstinks, Feb 24, 2001 10:45 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!...] 100064, x_thislawstinks, Feb 24, 2001 10:45 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!...] 100242, x_ameed, Oct 20, 2001 07:32 AM [Re: Betty and Others] 100065, x_Betty, Feb 26, 2001 12:21 AM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] 100066, x_Gwen, Feb 26, 2001 06:46 AM [You want to know whats not fair?] 100067, Rejected 100070, x_JJ, Feb 27, 2001 01:32 PM [Re: You want to know whats not fair?] 100075, x_CC, Mar 01, 2001 03:14 AM [Re: You want to know whats not fair?] 100078, x_Betty, Mar 05, 2001 12:25 AM [Re: You want to know whats not fair?] 100079, x_Gwen, Mar 05, 2001 02:32 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100338, x_NONE, Dec 05, 2001 03:46 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair] 100341, x_Nichole, Dec 05, 2001 06:31 PM [Re:you want to know whats not fair] 100339, x_NONE, Dec 05, 2001 03:49 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair] 100084, x_cathy, Mar 10, 2001 05:04 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100186, x_alan, Jul 29, 2001 02:12 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100088, x_wvtears, Mar 13, 2001 03:08 AM [Re: Betty and Others] 100163, x_angela, Jun 24, 2001 04:12 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100096, x_RickFisher, Mar 24, 2001 06:57 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100099, x_EdwardJones, Mar 29, 2001 08:03 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100166, x_same, Jun 30, 2001 02:01 AM [Re: Betty and Others] 100336, x_prissy, Dec 05, 2001 02:29 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair] 100337, x_NONE, Dec 05, 2001 03:30 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair] 100100, x_EdwardJones, Mar 29, 2001 08:10 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100103, x_robert, Apr 02, 2001 09:11 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100167, x_same, Jun 30, 2001 02:02 AM [Re: Betty and Others] 100174, x_MarkLevenda, Jun 30, 2001 10:42 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100214, x_EverybodymustR, Sep 26, 2001 03:39 PM [Re: Betty and Others] 100522, x_justin, Dec 17, 2001 01:47 PM [Re:you want to know whats not fair] 100562, x_Nichole, Dec 18, 2001 10:02 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]
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