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Thread (Discussion): UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Message 100078 (In Reply to Message 100075)
Re: You want to know whats not fair?

Posted by x_Betty on Mar 05, 2001 12:25 AM | Also by x_Betty

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I do understand how you guys have suffered. Trust me, I've been there as well. I know the victimization, the uncertainty- the shame. I do feel that sex offenders should be punished- and never allowed to hurt anyone. But the difference between me believing that and everyone else beliening it is that no matter how much I want justice, no matter how much I want the true criminals to pay, I am not willing to let innocent people, or people with special circumstances, or people who truly made mistakes, I'm not willing to let them suffer just so the real bad guys can be monitored. No. The greater good? Let me tell you about the greater good. Civic Virtue died out with the making of the constitution. We cannot depend on the greater good to clean up our society's messes. If we really want change- and I know that we all do- then we're going to have to work hard for it. Slapping every sex offender with a scarlet letter isn't the answer. We've got to look at each and every case, we've got to tighten parole/probation laws, we've got to build more prisons, and most of all we've got to stop the recidivism of these sex offenders by getting them the psychiatric help they need. Only with therapy can these guys get over the issues that are causing them to attack. And you know what I want to know? If sex offenders are so dangerous that we have to monitor them with this act, then what in God's name are they doing out of prison in the first place? You can say all you want about legal loopholes, prison space-whatever- the truth is there is no excuse for letting someone out if they're still dangerous. Because their is always going to be one guy who outsmarts the registry, or an unsespecting kid who wanders away from his parent. What good will this registry be then? No good. none at all. So you want to know what is unfair? Unfair is trying to solve a real and serious problem by putting labels on people and not taking the time, effort, and dedication to work to abolish the problem for good. That's what unfair, even to me, and I've been through the trauma. No one deserves to suffer for someone elses crime, greater good or no greater good.

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Message 100075
Re: You want to know whats not fair?

Posted by x_CC on Mar 01, 2001 03:14 AM | Also by x_CC

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Recently i just sat through a trial of an innocent man, and a very good friend who simply had false allogations brought against him by some young troubled boys. It was their word against his word.He was a role model citizen with a good job. He was presumed guilty before the trial.It was not well investigated. the mother of the boys had three children all from different men and a live in boyfriend. The jury first came back with a hung jury, but was sent back to deliberate longer. there were two charges for the same offensses. Then to hurry the verdict they compromised on a guilty and a not guilty charge.There were many young children and adults who testified on behalf of the deffendant. In terms of his trustworthyness and his interactions with other children. there were absolutely no other complaints from any child he worked with in the past. He still maintains his innocents. He has been incarcerated for 15 months to 15 years. He has lost his job  his assets, and he is unable to practice in his present profession. He has absolutely no desire to ever work with young children again or to ever want to put himself alone with women or children.  Prison has been hell for him.The above consequencesshould be enough punishment for this man. 
WAKE UP AMERICA WE ARE PUTTING INNOCENT PEOPLE IN JAIL.  NEXT TIME IT COULD BE YOUR SON OR A LOVED FAMILY MEMBER. I am a women/single parent who has raised a son who is now 24. Many young men make mistakes when their young. Sometimes 18 year old boys don't always think,or are very immature for their age. I'm sure there are also many young ladies out their who are minors and consent to sex or lie about their age then cry rape.

My son got to see first hand how the corruption of our justice system works.Just remember for every person who is unfairly put on the sex offender list it is a VIOLATION of both YOURS and MY CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS. By all means I do believe pedifiles should not walk the streets. Yet the sex offender list is not a cure all, and sex crimes need to be looked at on an individual basis not just lumped together in the same category. So all in favor of the sex offender list better teach your boys stay away from young boys and never be  totally alone with a woman because it could be their name next time. CC

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100032, x_LAURENCEHOWARD, Nov 19, 2000 07:11 PM [UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]
      100035, x_Shannen, Nov 21, 2000 02:17 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]
      100053, x_JJ, Feb 15, 2001 05:08 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]
            100056, x_fedup, Feb 20, 2001 06:01 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]
            100057, x_fedup, Feb 20, 2001 06:15 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]
                  100060, Rejected
                  100061, Rejected
                  100062, x_survivor, Feb 24, 2001 01:55 AM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!...]
                        100063, x_thislawstinks, Feb 24, 2001 10:45 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!...]
                        100064, x_thislawstinks, Feb 24, 2001 10:45 PM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!...]
                  100242, x_ameed, Oct 20, 2001 07:32 AM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100065, x_Betty, Feb 26, 2001 12:21 AM [RE: UNFAIR SEX REGISTRATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]
            100066, x_Gwen, Feb 26, 2001 06:46 AM [You want to know whats not fair?]
            100067, Rejected
            100070, x_JJ, Feb 27, 2001 01:32 PM [Re: You want to know whats not fair?]
      100075, x_CC, Mar 01, 2001 03:14 AM [Re: You want to know whats not fair?]
            100078, x_Betty, Mar 05, 2001 12:25 AM [Re: You want to know whats not fair?]
                  100079, x_Gwen, Mar 05, 2001 02:32 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
                        100338, x_NONE, Dec 05, 2001 03:46 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]
                              100341, x_Nichole, Dec 05, 2001 06:31 PM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]
                        100339, x_NONE, Dec 05, 2001 03:49 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]
                  100084, x_cathy, Mar 10, 2001 05:04 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
                  100186, x_alan, Jul 29, 2001 02:12 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100088, x_wvtears, Mar 13, 2001 03:08 AM [Re: Betty and Others]
            100163, x_angela, Jun 24, 2001 04:12 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100096, x_RickFisher, Mar 24, 2001 06:57 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100099, x_EdwardJones, Mar 29, 2001 08:03 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
            100166, x_same, Jun 30, 2001 02:01 AM [Re: Betty and Others]
            100336, x_prissy, Dec 05, 2001 02:29 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]
                  100337, x_NONE, Dec 05, 2001 03:30 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]
      100100, x_EdwardJones, Mar 29, 2001 08:10 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100103, x_robert, Apr 02, 2001 09:11 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100167, x_same, Jun 30, 2001 02:02 AM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100174, x_MarkLevenda, Jun 30, 2001 10:42 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100214, x_EverybodymustR, Sep 26, 2001 03:39 PM [Re: Betty and Others]
      100522, x_justin, Dec 17, 2001 01:47 PM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]
      100562, x_Nichole, Dec 18, 2001 10:02 AM [Re:you want to know whats not fair]

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