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Forum: Polls
Thread (Discussion): Poll 1031 - Do you consider the terms "pedophile" and "child molester" to have the same meaning? Switch to Flat View
Message 143482 (In Reply to Message 142527) poll 1031
Posted by oioi
on Jan 08, 2005 05:10 PM | Also by oioi
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: New York,
Country: United States |
I do not consider a child molester to be the same as a pedophile.
My ex-partner may or may not have been a pedophile, I'm not sure. He did express an attraction to adult females whose ages ran the gamut. So I don't know if that was just an act to prevent others from finding out about his true interests.
As far as my understanding goes, a pedophile is a person whose primary sexual attraction is to children, while a child molester is someone who actually abuses a child, whether that person is a pedophile or not.
And I would not consider a pedophile who does not abuse to be a molester. There is a huge difference between wanting to do something and doing it. I consider pedophilia to be an unhealthy condition that needs treatment, but I don't consider a pedophile who controls him/herself to be blameworthy, just pitiable.
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Message 142527
Posted by steve
on Dec 18, 2004 06:07 PM | Also by steve
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: Virginia,
Country: United States |
Thread 121952, admin, Nov 19, 2003 04:30 PM [Introduction] 122552, ericblair, Dec 01, 2003 10:36 PM [Options] 122858, steve, Dec 10, 2003 02:08 PM 142514, rebel51, Dec 18, 2004 12:17 PM 142525, brennus, Dec 18, 2004 05:59 PM 142527, steve, Dec 18, 2004 06:07 PM 142545, rebel51, Dec 19, 2004 11:48 AM 143482, oioi, Jan 08, 2005 05:10 PM [poll 1031] 142538, orolan, Dec 19, 2004 02:47 AM [reb] 142546, rebel51, Dec 19, 2004 12:48 PM 142557, orolan, Dec 19, 2004 03:27 PM 165836, anti, Oct 30, 2005 06:11 PM [ No...]
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