| Top Posters Since October 2003 |
|---|
dp1 | 4000+ | orolan | 4000+ | Navigatr1 | 2500+ | Silvert... | 2500+ | 1dadof5 | 2500+ | Valerie | 2000+ | steve | 1500+ | victori... | 1000+ | myoung | 1000+ | rabbitr... | 750+ | HPierce | 750+ | poetsdr... | 750+ | Renunci... | 750+ | lj | 750+ | fallenone | 500+ | DoTheCr... | 500+ | marta | 500+ | momhelp... | 500+ | prozac | 500+ | rebel51 | 500+ | PVulcan | 250+ | anti | 250+ | rodsmith | 250+ | LockEmUp | 250+ | Quest | 250+ | artie | 250+ | KK | 250+ | LostTime | 250+ | TGoodman | 250+ | amberleaf | 250+ | deadmom... | 250+ | brennus | 100+ | scarlett | 100+ | mousein... | 100+ | thepar | 100+ | assumpt... | 100+ | lildrafire | 100+ | JakeLF | 100+ | MrTruth | 100+ | june5 | 100+ |
| Newest Users |
|---|
| Registered within the last 72 hours. | | 56mar | | csg13 | | mrabon | | rmmpepsi | | shilohjp |
|
|
Forum: General
Thread (Discussion): Orolan's Story Switch to Flat View
Message 120258 (In Reply to Message 120122)
Posted by steve
on Oct 21, 2003 03:42 PM | Also by steve
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: Virginia,
Country: United States |
If the activity took place in your home state, then it sounds as though the sexual activity b/w your brother and the girl was legal. Though if that wasn't his home state and one or both crossed state lines to have sex then it may have been illegal. At this stage I suppose it's not really relevant since what's done is done and your situation is due to a conviction that was unrelated to whether they had sex or not.
I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt on the information you shared because I have no reason not to. I'm also not a lawyer. Based on the information you provided I think it was a lapse of judgment to ask her if she enjoyed the sex with your brother and given the context of the conversation you had with them I am not convinced that you should have been prosecuted. At worst I think you should have received a suspended sentence and should have been required to apologize to the girl and her parents. I don't see the need for you register as an offender since I believe the value of the registry and community notification is diluted if people like you who probably pose little threat are required to register.
Again, my opinions are based on what you've shared. I'm not surprised if some readers here question your story, especially since some of the decisions you made are different than what many of us probably think we would have done in the same situation, but unless you or another poster gives me a reason not to believe what they're saying, I give them the benefif of the doubt.
| See an abbreviation or acronym, but don't know what it stands for? Consult
the Glossary. |
Switch to Flat View
Message 120122 AOC
Posted by orolan
on Oct 19, 2003 08:26 PM | Also by orolan
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 40 - 49,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
Thread 120017, orolan, Oct 17, 2003 12:41 PM [The Beginning] 120028, Silverthorne, Oct 17, 2003 06:56 PM [Orolan's Story - Whats wrong with the reg...] 120045, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 03:17 AM [Do You Have A Chip on Your Shoulder?] 120047, myoung, Oct 18, 2003 03:56 AM [this is a very rare instance] 120121, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 08:19 PM 120146, myoung, Oct 20, 2003 02:19 AM [orolan] 120147, Rejected 120927, ccw5305, Nov 04, 2003 12:43 AM [I can see you know where I'm comeing ...] 120062, Silverthorne, Oct 18, 2003 09:40 AM [But it is personal] 120030, orolan, Oct 17, 2003 10:04 PM [Part Two] 120063, Silverthorne, Oct 18, 2003 09:45 AM [Sue them anyway] 120115, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 06:54 PM [False reporting] 120031, orolan, Oct 17, 2003 10:14 PM [The Polygraph Test] 120037, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 01:51 AM [Orolan's Lie] 120069, orolan, Oct 18, 2003 03:01 PM [Scam] 120076, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 06:19 PM [Polygraph] 120080, Silverthorne, Oct 18, 2003 09:52 PM [Its true] 120099, dp1, Oct 19, 2003 12:27 PM [Silver's Reply] 120118, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 07:59 PM [polygraphs] 120150, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 03:26 AM [Orolan's Polygraph Reply] 120195, myoung, Oct 20, 2003 04:02 PM [Question for DP1] 120206, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 09:21 PM [MYoung] 120240, myoung, Oct 21, 2003 03:45 AM [thanks dp1] 121145, katie, Nov 06, 2003 05:55 PM [question] 121188, dp1, Nov 07, 2003 01:58 AM [Standard Sex Of...] 122092, katie, Nov 21, 2003 05:38 PM [NO!] 122098, orolan, Nov 21, 2003 09:01 PM [New th...] 122109, steve, Nov 21, 2003 11:34 PM [I agree] 120220, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 12:06 AM [Reply to DP1] 120232, dp1, Oct 21, 2003 01:05 AM [Poly] 120265, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 04:50 PM [Dahmer] 120116, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 07:50 PM 120160, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 04:47 AM [Reply to Orolan] 120221, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 12:16 AM [Humor, and a question] 120235, dp1, Oct 21, 2003 01:26 AM [Reply to Orolan] 120269, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 05:09 PM [Cases] 120313, dp1, Oct 22, 2003 10:24 AM [Early Term from Probation] 120325, orolan, Oct 22, 2003 05:35 PM [Early term] 120117, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 07:50 PM 120032, Rejected 120036, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 01:39 AM [Courage to Reveal] 120070, orolan, Oct 18, 2003 03:14 PM [Judgement] 120077, PVulcan, Oct 18, 2003 07:02 PM [Interesting Indeed] 120081, Silverthorne, Oct 18, 2003 09:58 PM [Reply to PVulcan] 120096, PVulcan, Oct 19, 2003 08:14 AM 120100, dp1, Oct 19, 2003 12:50 PM [Everyone's Innocent?] 120110, Silverthorne, Oct 19, 2003 05:35 PM [Why Im whining] 120129, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 11:38 PM 120178, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 12:08 PM [Lack of Rehabilitation?] 120226, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 12:34 AM [Rehabilitation] 120229, dp1, Oct 21, 2003 12:55 AM [Supervision Fees] 120266, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 04:53 PM [Fees] 120329, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Oct 22, 2003 08:30 PM [ Safe, Secur...] 120333, orolan, Oct 22, 2003 09:06 PM [costs] 120343, Silverthorne, Oct 23, 2003 03:06 AM [What a rip-off] 120361, orolan, Oct 23, 2003 09:42 PM [Therapist] 120179, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 12:16 PM [Silver's Reply] 120212, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 11:10 PM [Silver's Reply] 120222, Silverthorne, Oct 21, 2003 12:23 AM [You answred them] 120236, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 01:36 AM 120231, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 01:05 AM [My two cents] 121153, katie, Nov 06, 2003 06:16 PM 120120, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 08:15 PM [We haven't heard from] 120126, simon, Oct 19, 2003 09:08 PM 120153, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 04:22 AM [Does Simon Have A Sense of Humor?] 120174, PVulcan, Oct 20, 2003 06:06 AM 120207, dp1, Oct 20, 2003 09:43 PM [Great Point But the Real Poi...] 120084, myoung, Oct 19, 2003 03:31 AM [To Vulcan] 120097, PVulcan, Oct 19, 2003 08:17 AM 120119, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 08:03 PM [PVulcan] 120143, PVulcan, Oct 20, 2003 01:53 AM [interesting still] 120217, orolan, Oct 20, 2003 11:50 PM 120043, steve, Oct 18, 2003 02:51 AM [Age of consent?] 120122, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 08:26 PM [AOC] 120258, steve, Oct 21, 2003 03:42 PM 120263, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 04:44 PM 120305, steve, Oct 22, 2003 03:49 AM 120326, orolan, Oct 22, 2003 05:42 PM [Simple mistakes] 120102, yaesu, Oct 19, 2003 03:10 PM [Thanks for the story [nt]] 120135, marta, Oct 20, 2003 12:29 AM [My opinion] 120176, lj, Oct 20, 2003 08:56 AM [Question on your therapy] 120215, orolan, Oct 20, 2003 11:42 PM 120223, Silverthorne, Oct 21, 2003 12:25 AM [What happend here?] 120327, orolan, Oct 22, 2003 06:04 PM [Friend's problem] 120253, HPierce, Oct 21, 2003 02:47 PM [Justice at it's worst] 120328, orolan, Oct 22, 2003 06:23 PM [Right to speak frankly] 120775, myoung, Oct 31, 2003 03:32 PM [I just don't get it] 120795, orolan, Oct 31, 2003 07:38 PM 120826, lj, Nov 01, 2003 01:51 AM [Question?] 120842, orolan, Nov 01, 2003 03:11 PM 120897, dp1, Nov 03, 2003 05:21 AM [Get A Modification for Contact] 120920, orolan, Nov 04, 2003 12:03 AM [Mind Reader] 120928, dp1, Nov 04, 2003 12:49 AM [Contact With Orolan] 123257, dp1, Dec 17, 2003 06:04 PM [Status Update] 123270, orolan, Dec 17, 2003 09:42 PM [Looong update] 123272, dp1, Dec 17, 2003 11:02 PM [Out of State VOP] 123277, orolan, Dec 18, 2003 12:40 AM 123279, dp1, Dec 18, 2003 01:08 AM [Orolan] 123311, orolan, Dec 18, 2003 08:36 PM 123341, dp1, Dec 19, 2003 05:29 AM [Orolan] 120902, lj, Nov 03, 2003 05:45 AM [Your paradigm of society] 120921, orolan, Nov 04, 2003 12:11 AM 120952, lj, Nov 04, 2003 09:37 AM [I can relate!] 120956, dp1, Nov 04, 2003 02:02 PM [New Board Post of the Year A...] 120969, lj, Nov 04, 2003 07:05 PM [Clarifying....] 120964, Silverthorne, Nov 04, 2003 05:26 PM 120970, orolan, Nov 04, 2003 09:09 PM 120972, steve, Nov 04, 2003 09:23 PM [Post of the year] 120974, lj, Nov 04, 2003 09:38 PM 121202, poetsdreamscape, Nov 07, 2003 06:23 AM [what a story] 121230, orolan, Nov 07, 2003 07:40 PM 121346, poetsdreamscape, Nov 09, 2003 05:20 AM 121354, orolan, Nov 09, 2003 02:57 PM 121427, Silverthorne, Nov 11, 2003 06:02 PM 121435, orolan, Nov 11, 2003 07:02 PM
Forum Home
| Top of Thread
|
|