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Forum: General
Thread (Discussion): Should bad parents be allowed to have children? Registry?
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Message 163443 (In Reply to Message 120142)
Posted by rebel51
on Oct 04, 2005 09:59 AM | Also by rebel51
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: California,
Country: United States |
I think that what they ment was the mothers who get onto welfare and THEN procede to have 3, 4, 5 kids and are pregnant again and have not been OFF welfare in years and now thier oldest daughter is pregnant and applied for welfare within the first few weeks of the pregnancy and the Grandmother still lives in the house with them and even though she only worked at the one job for a few months 30 years ago, she has been collecting disability ever since she 'fell and pulled her back' while at work.
I am talking about a real family here..they used to live next door to me..I have no idea what they raked in a month but I do know that there was at least 4 women in the house collecting welfare and the grandmother who got SDI and when the 15 year old got pregnant she made the comment to me that she could not wait for her first welfare check to come in so she "could be rich too".
What was even more frustrating was that while she was telling me this I was working on my own broken down car so that I could get to work to pay for their darn welfare!!
I honestly feel that everyone is intitled to one mistake so the first time you get pregnant WHILE ON state funding..thats cool...the second time, life sucks to be you! Automatic sterilization! and that includes your man if he is on welfare with you.
As to child abuse..and I do mean child ABUSE, not spanking your kid or just having a filthy house, I mean child abuse where you beat them or leave them alone for hours and days at a time or dont feed them or tell them how worthless they are daily etc etc etc.... once it is PROVED then those kids should be removed from your home and NEVER returned and you should be sterilized ASAP. NO second chances 'because you have learned your lesson' or whatever..you are not fit, period!! and I dont care if you were on drugs or anything else. Well...maybe if you can prove mental illness and can get a TOTAL release from the Doctor (with the understanding that if you re-offend HE/SHE goes to prison with you) THEN you can have your kids back.
HOWEVER I also think that when the cops go to all the neighbors and they all say..."I knew that something was going on, that poor kid came to my house and asked me for food all the time" or " I knew something was going on there, I could hear the screaming at all times of night" THEY need to go to jail too and if they have kids they should ALSO lose thiers! THIS also is a true story!!
My cousin lost his 3 kids to the courts, who then later gave them to my sister. AFTER he lost them THEN the damn neighbors came out and told my Aunt (the kids grandmother) how the little kids would come to thier houses naked, dirty and hungry ALL THE TIME!! They told my Aunt how they used to set out food on thier porches so that the kids could just come get it! They told my Aunt how they would hear all the fighting and hitting from thier house and would feel SOOO sorry for those poor little kids!! I feel that each and every one of those neighbors should have been in jail along with my cousin!! THEY abused those kids as much as my cousin did!!
Just in answer to some of the questions I KNOW will be coming...
they lived in another state where there were no other relatives SO we had NO way of knowing what was going on with these kids. The kids were at the time 2, 3, and 5. Even the 5 year old did not know how to use silverware and spoke little. The 2 and 3 year olds, both girls, had been molested and were TERRIFIED of baths for some reason. They now live in another State with my sister and her husband who can not have children of thier own and after just a few years of therapy are doing just fine. They are now 5,6 and 8 and my sister has been told that the youngest is 'highly gifted' and she has been put into some special program. The two girls are also water nuts and she cant keep them out of the bathtub now!
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Message 120142
The right to have kids.
Posted by Rachel
on Oct 20, 2003 01:31 AM | Also by Rachel
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 40 - 49,
State: N/A,
Country: Australia |
Thread
120016, Silverthorne, Oct 17, 2003 06:52 AM [Do we need a registry for bad parents to prev...]
120038, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 02:07 AM [The Mother Was a Pig]
120042, simon, Oct 18, 2003 02:46 AM
120046, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 03:54 AM [Yes Simon Let's Get Real]
120057, SurvivorForever, Oct 18, 2003 07:51 AM [Thank YOU! DP1]
120068, orolan, Oct 18, 2003 02:29 PM [Talking about sex]
120078, simon, Oct 18, 2003 07:22 PM
120079, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 09:45 PM [Reply to Simon]
120095, simon, Oct 19, 2003 06:36 AM
120108, dp1, Oct 19, 2003 05:15 PM [Reply to Simon]
120087, myoung, Oct 19, 2003 06:03 AM [okay simon, let's call it what it is]
120111, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 05:43 PM [To DP1 and myoung]
120124, simon, Oct 19, 2003 08:55 PM
120059, Silverthorne, Oct 18, 2003 09:31 AM [Reply for DP1]
163429, Scaye, Oct 04, 2005 05:38 AM
163649, rebel51, Oct 06, 2005 08:34 AM
163652, joy1234, Oct 06, 2005 11:45 AM
163754, rebel51, Oct 07, 2005 09:47 AM
163760, Rejected
120049, myoung, Oct 18, 2003 04:13 AM [Scary]
120060, Silverthorne, Oct 18, 2003 09:35 AM [Sick of kids]
120142, Rachel, Oct 20, 2003 01:31 AM [The right to have kids.]
120144, myoung, Oct 20, 2003 02:14 AM [to Rachel]
120145, Rejected
163443, rebel51, Oct 04, 2005 09:59 AM
164445, iastatso, Oct 13, 2005 05:50 PM
163264, prozac, Oct 02, 2005 05:39 AM
163301, Renunciation, Oct 02, 2005 07:40 PM
163394, victorialondon, Oct 03, 2005 05:46 PM [But they are Children.......]
163404, Renunciation, Oct 03, 2005 08:09 PM
163440, rebel51, Oct 04, 2005 09:02 AM
163444, rebel51, Oct 04, 2005 10:08 AM
163484, Renunciation, Oct 04, 2005 04:12 PM
163648, rebel51, Oct 06, 2005 08:23 AM
163683, Renunciation, Oct 06, 2005 04:10 PM
163689, iastatso, Oct 06, 2005 04:34 PM
163495, victorialondon, Oct 04, 2005 05:45 PM [If you want that read Desmo...]
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