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Forum: General
Thread (Discussion): Is Prevention even possible without understanding?
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Message 120242 (In Reply to Message 120199)
just plain crazy
Posted by myoung
on Oct 21, 2003 04:52 AM | Also by myoung
| Gender: N/A,
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State: Pennsylvania,
Country: United States |
"How can we believe that 5 years worth of therapy is all that offenders need. "
It's not we, it's they....... it takes the recovered to heal another.......how can some prison therapist possibly understand what they need when they cannot relate to the issues?
This is a bit confusing though. I was under the impression that pedophilia is an orientation like being homosexual or heterosexual. You knew you were attracted to children at a very young age (I believe that was what you'd said). I don't know your story and I don't know what type of childhood you had so I will assume that your parents were involved. Do you think if you would have been in therapy for your feelings toward children back when you first noticed them that a therapist may have changed that attraction for you? If yes, why do you think that? If no, why? Do you think those feelings arose from the trauma you suffered at age 10? PTSD is quite powerful....just ask a Vietnam vet. Do you think that you can rewire a child if they are caught early enough (it's really like brainwashing or relearning I guess)? Or do you feel like some of the trauma offenders may have endured in their childhood contribute to PTSD type syndromes which worsen when left untreated? It is very interesting to see things from your vantage point so I look forward to reading them. Thanks Silverthorne. I am always willing to learn so that I might understand and gain better insight. You cannot have tolerance without understanding and insight. So lay it on me:) Oh, by the way, have you ever tried biofeedback, hypnosis, extreme meditation, etc. in conjunction with your therapy?
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Message 120199
Depends
Posted by Silverthorne
on Oct 20, 2003 04:37 PM | Also by Silverthorne
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Thread
120015, Silverthorne, Oct 17, 2003 06:43 AM [Is Prevention even possible without understan...]
120021, HPierce, Oct 17, 2003 04:31 PM [Better yet]
120025, orolan, Oct 17, 2003 05:57 PM [AOC idiocy]
120027, betsemes, Oct 17, 2003 06:40 PM
120033, orolan, Oct 17, 2003 10:50 PM [chastity]
120050, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 04:50 AM [Prior Abuse or Sex Acts?]
120067, orolan, Oct 18, 2003 01:34 PM [Culpability]
120056, SurvivorForever, Oct 18, 2003 07:30 AM
120113, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 05:59 PM
120773, marta, Oct 31, 2003 02:45 PM [You and teenaged girls]
120487, marta, Oct 26, 2003 12:31 AM
120512, ladyjane, Oct 26, 2003 03:18 PM [So somebody help me understand.]
120515, orolan, Oct 26, 2003 04:48 PM [reply to LadyJane]
120550, marta, Oct 27, 2003 04:26 AM [Come again?]
120514, orolan, Oct 26, 2003 04:44 PM [AOC]
120551, marta, Oct 27, 2003 04:38 AM [Stand down]
120580, orolan, Oct 27, 2003 07:54 PM
120602, marta, Oct 28, 2003 01:05 AM [Ah, I see.]
120625, orolan, Oct 28, 2003 09:24 PM
120672, marta, Oct 29, 2003 03:06 PM
120703, orolan, Oct 30, 2003 12:20 AM
120723, marta, Oct 30, 2003 03:10 PM
120603, Rejected
120573, myoung, Oct 27, 2003 04:31 PM [orolan.....virginity]
120575, steve, Oct 27, 2003 05:00 PM
120051, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 05:04 AM [Minors Are Too Young To Consent]
120114, orolan, Oct 19, 2003 06:26 PM [terminology]
120039, dp1, Oct 18, 2003 02:26 AM [You Can't Prevent Something From Nothing]
120061, Silverthorne, Oct 18, 2003 09:38 AM [Your right DP1]
120161, Dragonfly, Oct 20, 2003 04:49 AM [An Addendum]
120199, Silverthorne, Oct 20, 2003 04:37 PM [Depends]
120242, myoung, Oct 21, 2003 04:52 AM [just plain crazy]
120261, orolan, Oct 21, 2003 04:15 PM [rewire]
120309, myoung, Oct 22, 2003 05:49 AM [girl rewired]
120323, orolan, Oct 22, 2003 04:15 PM [Clarification]
120245, Dragonfly, Oct 21, 2003 07:54 AM
120247, dp1, Oct 21, 2003 01:21 PM [Help = $$$$$]
120182, myoung, Oct 20, 2003 01:33 PM [Dragonfly]
120183, Rejected
120594, myoung, Oct 27, 2003 11:41 PM [You go steve!!]
120600, steve, Oct 28, 2003 12:14 AM
120601, steve, Oct 28, 2003 12:16 AM
120595, Rejected
120596, Rejected
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